Despite claiming to find intelligent women attractive, men choose not to date someone who is smarter than themselves, according to new research
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next time a man tells you that he's attracted to intelligent women, you might
want to ask him whether he's ever actually dated one.
No,
that's not a slight on the female of the species. Instead, it's the findings of
a new study, which suggests that men state their theoretical preference for
intelligent women only to then change their minds in the cold light of the
dating arena.
The study,
which will be published in the November edition of ‘Personality and Social
Psychology Bulletin’ but is already
available to read online, concluded that rather than find smarter women
attractive, men are actively intimidated by the prospect of an intelligent
partner.
Psychologists
at the University of Buffalo, California Lutheran University and University of
Texas, Austin, broke their research into two parts. First, 105 men were asked
to rank the merits of women who had out- or under-performed them in an
intelligence test as a prospective romantic partner.
They found that the men were more likely to declare their
attraction to women who had performed better than them. "Men formed favorable
impressions and showed greater interest in women who displayed more (versus
less) intelligence than themselves," the study authors wrote.
However,
the trend was reversed in the second part of the test, where the men were given
an intelligence test and then informed that they were about to actually meet a
woman who had either performed better or worse than them on the same test.
In this scenario, the researchers noted that the men who had
been told they were about to meet a more intelligent woman "distanced
themselves more from her, tended to rate her as less attractive, and showed
less desire to exchange contact information or plan a date with her."
• If men are honest, do they really prize intelligence over looks?
• If men are honest, do they really prize intelligence over looks?
The key, according to the study, is that in the second scenario,
the men felt threatened by the physical presence of a clever woman:
"Feelings of diminished masculinity accounted for men’s decreased
attraction toward women who outperformed them in the live interaction
context."
The
research contradicts the common belief that men seek out intelligence in
prospective partners because it means they will have clever offspring.
“The main thing that men are looking for is intelligence," Professor David Bainbridge, of the
University of Cambridge, told the Hay Festival earlier this year.
"Surveys have shown time and time again that this is the first thing that
men look for.
"It shows that she will be able to look after his children
and that her parents were probably intelligent as well, suggesting that she was
raised well."